Kicked again but from fallout chat for saying "Gunny is a great parent" after I said a joke that wasnt even towards him

So I made was talking about a joke i commonly say around my mother and my dad heard it and than i typed in chat "You've known you failed as a parent if your child says he wants your mother to marry a new man" And i even said to gunny that It wasnt apointed towards him but it still offended him and I never wanted to offend him, After that I said he was a great parent and he thought that joke i said was towards him, Gunny if you thought i ment that towards you I wasnt I do not have anything against you. I wasnt directing that joke about "failed parenting" towards you. This was towards me because I like to insult myself.